Stay Together

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You’re here because you’re struggling in your relationship but you don’t want to break up

Hi, I’m Clarissa

I’m your personal relationship expert

I’m a relationship coach specializing in conflict, attachment, and somatic processing.
I’m also a social, emotional, & sexual health educator for tweens, teens, & adults.

I help queer and highly-sensitive people show up in relationships with healthy relationship behaviors, a regulated nervous system, and badass conflict resolution skills.

If you’re ready to stop feeling triggered all the time and start feeling safe in your relationships, then you’re ready to join my 3-month private coaching program.

Head to my coaching page and book a free sales call to get started today. You’re ready.

Prevent an unnecessary breakup

Prevent an unnecessary breakup

SOMATIC PROCESSING

CONFLICT
& REPAIR

You’re ready to build a relationship where you feel safe, secure, & treasured

You’re ready to build a relationship where you feel safe, secure, & treasured

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Relationship Rebels

My 12-week signature coaching program will teach you how to navigate your unconscious (and unhealthy) relationship patterns so you can resolve conflict with your attachment intact, hold boundaries lovingly, and advocate for your needs. In the first 30 days, you’ll learn simple strategies to stay regulated when something triggering happens. By the end of 3 months, you’ll be able to stay calm and communicative during conflict. You’ll feel more connected & intimate in your relationships than you ever thought possible.

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WHO’S IT FOR?

Relationship Rebels is for you if you:

  • Keep getting triggered by your partner and want to learn how to turn off trauma brain

  • Are having a lot of conflict and aren’t sure whether you should stay together or break up

  • Have a growth mindset when it comes to healing & relationships

  • Don’t subscribe to heteronormative behaviors like aggression, martyrdom, & avoidance

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Feel Secure

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“I feel so much more regulated, I feel less anxious, fights are different. I was lashing out a lot, conflict was really hard, we were fighting a lot. I couldn’t seem to fight fair. We were on the verge of breaking up. To anyone considering this program, I would say the next 12 weeks will change your life if you stick with it. There is hope. Not only will your romantic relationships shift, but even your platonic or family connections will benefit too. I am so glad I did it.”

-Emily 1:1 Coaching Client