You’re ready to feel safe, secure, & treasured in your relationship

Join the program that helps people get out of
trauma brain and into trusting relationships.

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The Key

Takeaways

Relationship Rebels is a private coaching program where we uncover your trauma triggers, attachment style, & stress response to begin shifting how you show up in all of your relationships.

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12 weekly calls over 3 months to dive deep into your specific relationship struggles

Text support in between calls for questions & troubleshooting conflicts as they arise

Weekly action items targeted toward shifting dysfunctional patterns & behaviors

ABOUT

Hi, I’m Clarissa

I’m your personal relationship expert

I’m a relationship coach specializing in conflict, attachment, and queer relationships. I’m also a social, emotional, & sexual health educator for tweens, teens, & adults.

I help people show up in relationships with secure attachment behaviors, a regulated nervous system, and badass conflict resolution skills.

If you’re ready to stop feeling triggered all the time and start feeling safe in your relationships, then you’re ready to join my 12-week private coaching program.

Head to my services page and book a free sales call to get started today.

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Change Starts Here

What Clients Are Saying About Me

“I really appreciated the balance of professional insight and opinions mixed with the warm, casual, empathetic tone of our sessions.

I consistently felt validated and am grateful for the way in which you were able to ask prompting questions to help me parse through undetermined feelings. I also am grateful for the tangible and transferable tools I gained in our sessions. I have been in other coaching/therapy environments where we would talk about an issue at hand and I would feel validated, but did not gain physical tools to transfer to future instances.”

-SB

“I became far more secure in myself and my ability to make decisions for myself in my own life and relationships.

My romantic relationship flourished and our communication deepened in ways I didn't think possible. This has created the foundation for a strong, interdependent connection that can withstand hard and unexpected things. I feel less dysregulated on a daily basis.”

-Simone

“I was struck by your (seemingly) provocative suggestion that couples in the first three years of their relationship don't need to break up at the first sign of conflict.

I've been fatigued by mainstream rhetoric that encourages us to individualistically abandon a relationship that does not immediately operate smoothly. Your approach appealed to me because of how it encourages curiosity and communication while counterbalancing one's agency—that love can mean choosing to work through something together and being mutually transformed by it.”

-Leia

"Your coaching was AMAZING (better than any therapy I had received).

I felt seen, supported, celebrated, and proactively challenged every week. I was better able to define polyamory and can speak more openly about it without shame. I’ve been able to embrace that I am more queer than I thought and that I have a tender heart and that's good."

-Jill

“I feel so much more regulated, I feel less anxious, fights are different.

I was lashing out a lot, conflict was really hard, we were fighting a lot. I couldn’t seem to fight fair. We were on the verge of breaking up. To anyone considering this program, I would say the next 12 weeks will change your life if you stick with it. There is hope. Not only will your romantic relationships shift, but even your platonic or family connections will benefit too. I am so glad I did it.”

-Emily

“You have a different approach than couples therapy.

You are so adept at analyzing situations and making me understand the root cause of the problems. Also, you help me come up with sustainable solutions. I am showing up more as a leader in my marriage and I've worked on showing up as a more emotionally regulated and mature partner, with still room for improvement. Our conflict-repair cycles are sticking more and lasting longer. I feel more seen and heard by my wife and I'm trying my best to listen to understand her more. We're being a little more vulnerable with each other and trusting each other a little more. We're both giving each other the chance to show up for one another and prove that we want this.”

-Daniella

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We’ll have an hour together to discuss exactly what you’re going through and whether or not I’m the right fit for you. There won’t be any pressure to buy, this just is an opportunity for us to discover your unique needs and how I can help you heal your relationship patterns. I’m really easy to talk to, just click the button!