Stop Feeling Triggered All the Time

Navigate Relationships with Confidence

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You’re here because you know how you want to show up in relationships but need some help getting there.

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ABOUT

Hi, I’m Clarissa

I’m your personal relationship expert

I’m a relationship coach specializing in conflict, attachment, and queer relationships. I’m also a social, emotional, & sexual health educator for tweens, teens, & adults.

I help people show up in relationships with secure attachment behaviors, a regulated nervous system, and badass conflict resolution skills.

If you’re ready to stop feeling triggered all the time and start feeling safe in your relationships, then you’re ready to join my 3-month private coaching program.

Head to my services page and book a free sales call to get started today. What are you waiting for?

You can learn to feel safe in conflict

You can learn to feel safe in conflict

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NERVOUS SYSTEM
REGULATION

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RADICAL
RESPONSIBILITY

You’re ready to build a relationship where you feel safe, secure, & treasured

You’re ready to build a relationship where you feel safe, secure, & treasured

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UNTRIGGERED

THE 1:1 COACHING
PROGRAM

My 12-week signature coaching program will teach you how to stay untriggered so you can calmly navigate conflict, lovingly hold boundaries, and thoughtfully communicate your needs. In the first 30 days, you’ll learn simple strategies to stay regulated when something triggering happens. By the end of 3 months, you’ll be able to stay calm and communicative during conflict. You’ll feel more connected & intimate in your relationships than you ever thought possible.

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WHO’S IT FOR?

Untriggered is for you if you:

  • Keep getting triggered by people and want to learn how to turn off trauma brain

  • Don’t subscribe to heteronormative behaviors like aggression & avoidance

  • Have an insecure attachment style and want to build a secure attachment

  • Are having a lot of conflict and want it to start being productive

  • Have a growth mindset when it comes to healing & relationships

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Become Secure

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"Your coaching was AMAZING (better than any therapy I had received). I felt seen, supported, celebrated, and proactively challenged every week. I was better able to define polyamory and can speak more openly about it without shame. I’ve been able to embrace that I am more queer than I thought and that I have a tender heart and that's good."

-Jill 1:1 Coaching Client